love or not

salam...

You probably haven’t thought about this possibility, but the truth is that you may be wanted by many men or women, without being loved by them.
If you are attractive, intelligent, you have a great personality, money, beauty, etc., you may be desired by many people that belong to the opposite sex, but this doesn’t mean that they love you.

This means that they want to posses you, without caring about the way you feel, your plans, ideals or preferences. You will be able to verify if they really love you or not by examining their actions and their behavior.

Be very careful if you are very attractive, for one reason or another…How can you verify if they are playing with you and they only want to fulfill their selfish desires, using you like a trophy that they exhibit to their environment, or using your intelligence and good disposition in order to make you work for them without being paid?

How can you be sure that you are not being used?Pay attention to the way they behave with you. If they make you suffer, without caring about the way you feel, but only about their desires, their plans and their ambitions, you’ll be easily able to understand that they don’t love you. They simply want you, for other reasons.

Otherwise, they would never make you suffer in order to oblige you to follow their plans. They are already using you if they are making you suffer for any reason.
Be careful if you are too wanted by too many, and never be vain, because your position is very delicate. Vanity is pure stupidity, because if you are beautiful or very intelligent, this doesn’t mean that you are perfect as a human being or that your mental health is safe. On the contrary: you are the ideal victim for the wild anti-conscience, your primitive wild conscience that wants to destroy your human side through craziness and control your behavior.

Be very serious and carefully examine everyone that cares about you.They only want your honey, like flies. They don’t care about your desires, your personality, your feelings, nothing…They want to imprison you in a cage and be your owners, because you are very nice.
You have to learn many things about the human psyche and human behavior if you want to be safe. The person who will really love you will care first of all about making you happy!
Pay attention to all the details and examine everything very carefully before being a victim of your own vanity.

Never believe that someone loves you, only because they felt attracted by your characteristics, your intelligence or your social position.

as the young women we must careful at all the step we take..
we just know someone outside not inside them.

'''don't judge a book by its cover'''

pressure?

hi...salam...
for today i want to share about overcome the pressure.....read this.!!!!

Teenagers have a lot to deal with. They have to withstand peer pressure, deal with adult expectations and rejections. It's natural that sometimes they are confused and discontented. This causes low self-esteem and a lack of self-confidence, which in turn causes depression, unhappiness, and insecurity among teenagers.

Symptoms of a troubled teen:

* Performing badly in school, lack of concentration, and forgetfulness
* Remaining aloof, keeping away from friends and activities
* Feeling sad and hopeless
* Prone to quick bouts of anger and rage, or reacting strongly to criticism
* Being indecisive, restless, and agitated
* Changes in eating and sleeping patterns
* Substance abuse
* Having problems with authority

Take charge before the symptoms become too severe.

What we should do????

1. Face your fears. Once you face them, you will feel that they aren't as bad as you thought they
were. Facing your fears will increase your confidence.
2. Forget past failures. Don't assume that just because you failed before, things will go wrong
again. Look on your failures as stepping stones.
3. Reward yourself when you have achieved something. Self-help is always the best help. Learn
to rely on yourself.
4. Talk to others. Don't come to hasty conclusions about a situation or a person. If you have any
doubts or questions, clarify. Don't assume things.
5. Don't let failure defeat you. Accept it. Try something else. Everyone fails at some point in life.

try to solve our problems and pressure in positive ways..
we decide what we want....
so try the best...
aRiousss......

make yourself happy

How to Make Yourself Happier

In 1986, L. Ron Hubbard wrote a poem which is a guide to happiness.

"The Joy of Creating"
"Force yourself to smile and you’ll soon stop frowning.
"Force yourself to laugh and you’ll soon find something to laugh about.
"Wax* enthusiastic** and you’ll very soon feel so.
"A being causes his own feelings.
"The greatest joy there is in life is creating.
"Splurge on it!" — L. Ron Hubbard

(*wax: to increase in size, strength or intensity.)
(**enthusiastic: having or demonstrating enthusiasm.)


Four Steps to Make Yourself Happier

1. "Force yourself to smile and you’ll soon stop frowning."

Try this exercise.

A. Smile
B. Don’t smile
C. Smile
D. Don’t smile
E. Smile
F. Don’t smile
G. Repeat the above until you are cheerful.

Do this exercise whenever you are frowning, upset, depressed, angry, apathetic or resentful.
Try the exercise in front of a mirror for an extra boost.


2. "Force yourself to laugh and you’ll soon find something to laugh about."

This exercise is useful when you are feeling stressed out or too serious.

A. Force a laugh.
B. If this is difficult for you to do, say, "ha ha ha ha ha." Then say, "ho, ho, ho, ho, ho."
Then say, "he, he, he, he, he."
C. Repeat the above until you find something to laugh about.


3. "Wax enthusiastic and you’ll very soon feel so."

When you feel enthusiasm for a difficult task, you make better decisions, get more done
in less time and produce a better result.

A. Write down a task you are avoiding or hate to do.
B. Ask yourself, "What about this task is interesting?" Write down the answer.
C. Ask yourself, "What could I be a little excited about regarding this task?" Write down
the answer.
D. Ask yourself, "What could I be enthusiastic about regarding this task?" Write down the answer.
E. Repeat steps B, C and D until you feel enthusiastic about doing the task.
You might be surprised at how quickly this works.


4. "The greatest joy there is in life is creating."

What are your greatest joys in life?
Being a parent? Starting a company? Finding new customers? Forming new
relationships?
Notice how each activity creates something?

A. Write down three things you can create today.
B. Do them.
C. Notice if your day is more joyful.

The happiest individuals, families and groups are those that create things.
The most exciting goals you can have involve creating something.
In fact, all of your success is your creation.
"Splurge on it!"

i found these article on internet and its good to share with all of you. Because not all the time we are in happy condition, sometime we are in tough situation, at that time this article will help you.

try it, you will fell better. aRiouss......

we lives in real world which everybody have their own problems...no ones in this world doesn't have the problem and that problems actually make us more matured. but there is the people whose take the problems as something that really worst..and to solve it,they blame others without think about it twice..maybe with that way they feel relief, but how about the person that been blame...
in making the decision we need to consider others..we should not directly blame others when it actually come from us..
as the human...everybody will make mistakes....

for my lovely friend..
there's something i want to say....
i can't be as you want me to be...
but i have try my best to be the greatest friend...
maybe its not enough for you...
but that only i can give...
its up to you to accept it or to ignore it...
i really dont care about it...what i want is, to be the way i am..
starting from this moment,..do what you want to do...
as the friend, i had gave the best but you never appreciate that..
and to become worst, you blame me for the best i gave...
i dont know what you want actually...
but i hope you get what you want..the perfect person that you looking for and for the last thing, i never can't be the perfect person because i am a human and i hope you also realize that you also a human as me..
aRious......

life is short

hello......

meet again....

tonight, my blog is about "life is short"

i want to talk about this because

when i read newspaper today,,i found a news about a girl died on the spot in an accident...

The 18 years old girl with her cousin also 18 years old had been hitted by 4 cars..

its so sad..

shes only 18 years old and is starting to become young woman..

as the muslim..lets recite 'Al-Fatihah' for her..

so, i'm want to say...

this life is short..'

we know, everybody will die soon..

but, we don't know when the time will come..

maybe today..

tomorrow...

or maybe 2 years afterwards

so...."""""DO WE PREPARE TO FACE IT""""

we know our own answer right!!!!!??

life is short.....

we can't waste even a minute of our lives...

aRiouss..